Stop romanticizing the people who hurt you. It is not beautiful that you are broken, it is not poetic. Needing, depending, loving someone so much that you cannot function without them is pathetic, it’s horrible, it’s slavery and it is not something to be desired.Fix yourself. He is not going to come save you, or love you, or live happily ever after with you. Someone is not going to find you at a coffee shopping reading and decide to love and fix your soul. You have to do it yourself. I am so sick of your craving for his love to fix you, he destroyed you. That is what he did to you. Destroyed. You. And he is not coming back to love you, your dependence on him is not beautiful, it’s not magical, it’s horrifying. He does not love you. Do you understand? Now get off your ass and learn to love yourself because that’s the only way you’re ever going to be okay. He cannot make you okay again, no one but yourself can.
— the words that changed my life (via lillyandjacks-aperfectmatch)